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This past week, I ran into a big problem. My boss, the majority owner and the hands-on boss, called me over the weekend to tell me that her best friend and business partner had uploaded a number of photos to our website. She knows I am a control freak, so she didn't want me to panic when I saw what they had done.
When I looked at the site and the new additions, I was very upset. I had to inactivate a number of the pages that had been added because of captions that were at one extreme, lewd and sexist, and at the other, just plain stupid, full of misspellings and inaccuracies, or based on in-jokes that outsiders (read potential clients) would not understand. I talked to my boss and thought I was given permission to change anything I needed to. I set about going through each page methodically and changing captions, rearranging the order of some photos to make sense (I think that the photos should tell a story to hook the prospect and get them excited about our business), and turning the sideways photos (yes, she put some in sideways!) back to a normal orientation before restoring the page to the website. Should I mention that we are targeting an upscale market and clientele?
When the partner found out that I had shut things down, and further, that I had changed more than the supposed few that really needed to be changed, she pouted. I apparently "hurt her feelings". Now, I genuinely like both my boss and her partner, so I am upset that I have hurt anyone's feelings. But I felt that the business's interests were not being served by the unorganized, inappropriate mess she had made.
I'm getting scolded for changing things, and I feel rotten because I don't want bad feelings between us, and I don't know how to fix it. I do appreciate this partner's input and creativity in the areas that she usually handles. I can see everyone's viewpoint, but I feel that it's the business's and customers' viewpoints that count. How can I make them see that the website is a marketing tool not someone's toy?
I was, after all, brought into the company because my boss liked my writing and creative ideas. And I have written for websites before. They think they are helping me by doing this for me since I often have more work than I can handle. How can I make them take all this more seriously?
Please don't tell me to look for something else. This place has been very good for me and very supportive. I am in transition from ten years of intense caregiving for my husband who died last year. I am re-adjusting to having my own life and to figuring out what I want to do with it, and I am not yet ready to work a "normal" job with normal hours. And I really care about both the people and the success of the business. It's like a family. I just feel like I got blindsided and betrayed. Any ideas, strategies, etc. you can offer are greatly appreciated.
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